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The High Cost of Being a Moron

by Jeff on November 16, 2009

Yup, Im an Idiot.  It’s official Now.

Credit: Southsidetowing

Cars Impounded

Wow…..I never thought it would have happened, as I’ve been on quite a good streak with my finances and personal life lately.  By “good streak” I mean to say that I havent done anything that will knee-cap my chances of being successful in the future.  Some people call this “Staying out of your own way”.  As I mentioned, I have been quite good at getting out of my own way lately (I wasnt always this way, but that’s a topic for another post).  I was making good headway on my debt (I still am, sorta) and just really had not done anything that I could look back on in 5 minutes and say “What the hell was I thinking?!”

Well, as you can probably gather, this completely blew up in my face recently, and I’ve finally gotten around to writing about it.  You’ll probably say I was stupid as well, but at this point, I’ve put my moronic actions past me, and have updated my plan/situation to reflect that.

As I mentioned in a previous article (The cost of your car, Pt 2), I purchased a new car when my old one broke down on the way north, and because I got a fairly good deal on a not that old car, I figured that once I got my other car fixed, I could sell it for at least what I paid for it, or possibly a profit.  So, with the help of a great friend, I retrieve my car from its location, take it to the repair shop, and they tell me it will be about a week, because they were a bit behind.  (It was fine with me, as hunting season had just opened, and I know that my mechanic hunts frequently)  So I drive the newer car until the old one is fixed, and then list it on craigslist.  Within a few days, I had many promising responses, and set up a time to have someone look at the vehicle.  I had left room on the price to haggle a bit and still make some money, and the first person that looked at the car made me an offer that I accepted.   The buyer informed me that the transaction would take a while to complete, due to some funding issues, which I agreed to.

Once that happened, I imagined all this progress I was going to make on my credit card debt with this money that I did not yet have.  I ran numbers over and over in my head, and I thought I would be able to hit my goal of being free of credit card debt by 1.1.2010.  I was ecstatic, and applauded myself on shrewed business skills.  All the while, I left the vehicle parked on the street in the city I work in (45 mins from the city I live in).  It was a couple blocks from my place of employment, and so I didnt really figure it to be that big of a deal, as it was parked on the street next to a vacant lot.  The plan was for the car to sit there for around 8 days, and I figured that no one would mind (or even notice, really) that the car had been parked there.

The problem with that situation was that there was an issue with the funding source of the buyer, and I figure that im in no hurry, and can wait for her to straighten everything out.  The car ends up sitting there for the better part of three weeks!  On the day of the sale, I go to retrieve it and ITS GONE!  Im thinking to myself, holy crap, where is it, what happened to it, etc.  I come to the conclusion that it got towed, and I need to find it and get it before I can sell it.  (I havent panicked yet, but im sure annoyed at this point).

I call the city, they tell me (after waiting a bit) that it was towed.  I call the towing company, and they say that have it, and that it’s going to cost $900 for me to get it out.  They had it for almost 2 weeks.  I was not happy that I was not notified, but right then, all the dreams I had of using that car money (and profit) to pay off my debts went out the window, and life gave me a well placed kick to the midsection.

I retrived the car, swallowing a $900 bill before hand, and thought, well, im glad this mess is over, sold the vehicle and wont really look back.  Except to weep continuously.

I learned the following lessons from this escapade:

  1. Keep track of your crap – This would not have happened had I not assumed that all was going to be hunky-dory with the world.  The car got towed, but it could have just as easily gotten stolen.
  2. Get out of your own damn way – Personal finance is difficult enough (so much so that many dont bother with it), and it’s even more difficult when you keep tripping over yourself.
  3. Dont count your chickens Dollars before you’ve got them –  This definitely didnt help either.  It just made me angrier at myself for being such an *idiot*
  4. Persevere – I think this is the most important take-away from this.   Although my Jan 1, 2010 goal for being credit card debt free is most likely unattainable at this point, this is no time for me to just give up.  I’ve gotten too far, enjoyed the successes that I have had too much to just quit now, even though I did take one on the chin pretty hard.

As they say on Intervention, Relapse is part of recovery.  You have to just keep plugging away, and eventually you’ll be where you wanted to be at the beginning.

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Low Hanging Fruit

by Jeff on October 1, 2009

With the recession being officially “over” many people still want to save money and make sure they are financially ready if something were to happen again.  Many others would like to save money for increased security later in life, or to make that dream vacation become a reality.   Others are interested in saving the earth because they are worried about the damage being done, and want to pass on a functioning globe to children and grandchildren.  I’ve decided to get a list of tips together to help you in your sustainability quest.  These things are all fairly easy to do, wont cost much or take much time than you would normally spend on the task.  They are the “Low Hanging Fruit” of your quest for a greener life, leaner body and a more financially fit you.

Totally Jacked Debt Ninja's Style, but Oh well.

Totally Jacked Debt Ninja's Style, but Oh well.

  • Go Green – Many merchants  are charged fees to run debit or credit transactions, which is no secret to anyone (or at least it shouldnt be).  Many also pass the fees straight on to the consumer, and some merchants will give you a small discount (1-3%) if paying with cash.  Good for: Financial Sustainability
  • Can the throwaway goods – Many products used frequently around the home are made to throw away.  They typically are cheaper (up front cost only) than their ‘real’ counterparts (plates, napkins), but when counting life cycle cost (landfills, trees) they are more expensive.  Make the switch to cloth napkins, cloth rags (instead of paper towels) and real plates.  Good for: Financial Sustainability, Environmental Sustainability
  • Save USEFUL Stuff – Make sure that the useful applies here.  I know a lot of people (myself occasionally included) who save many things that just end up becoming useless clutter that was thought to have some future value at some point in the past.  You have to ask yourself when you’re looking at it “Am I really going to use this later, or am I saving it just to save it?”  Some things will come in useful in the future, but most wont…..how long are you willing to save stuff for?  Also, if you’re saving the useful stuff, that’s less stuff in the landfill.  Good for: Sanity, Environment
  • Buy Quality I wrote about this earlier when I talked about the saucepan.  Yes, it was more expensive initially, but over the long run it will be cheaper.  This goes for not only saucepans, but power tools as well.  People dont say “You get what you pay for” for no reason.  Good for: Environmental Sustainability, Financial Sustainability (in the long term)
  • Think About Tomorrow and Next Year – You know you will wake up every morning and want a cup of coffee, and there’s nothing wrong with that.  But keep in mind the amount that you drink can produce alot of waste, and even more son when you consider the yearly effect.  If you drink coffee from your favorite coffee house on the go and take one of their disposable cups every time, that’s 330+ cups headed straight for the garbage when you’re done.  If you consider your habits similar to that of others (with coffee, not difficult) then you’ll end up with an astonishing waste stream every year.  Also, for you lazy people out there, buying a reusable travel mug will mean less stuff goes in the garbage, and the less stuff that goes in, the less you have to take it out.   Good for: Financial Sustainability, Environmental Sustainabity
  • Walk It Out – How often do you find yourself driving a short distance?  Does it ever annoy you that you are getting in the car because you have something you need to pick up that requires a vehicle, and you need to drive the 7 blocks to get it?   Odds are, you dont NEED to drive to the park down the block or to the neighborhood pool.  You may think you need to because of all of the stuff you’re taking, but how many things do you really need to go to the pool?  A bathing suit & towel, and your clothing you came in with.  Not many.  Next time, walk a little.  Take the walk to chat with people important to you about things you enjoy.  You’re helping the environment and your health at the same time.  You’ve also insulated yourself (partially) from potential gas price spikes similar to the ones during the summer of 2007.  Good for: Environment, Your Health, Finances
  • Do It Yourself - I once had a bookshelf that was of poor quality and after dealing with it lurching to one side for the better part of 2 years, I finally began to look to replace it.  I could have just gone and bought one from my local discount merchant and found myself in a similar situation down the road, but instead I decided to take my limited tools (drill & a circular saw) and go it alone.  I liked my old bookshelf and the size, so I simply measured its dimensions and built mine exactly the same.  It works great, and I got that good feeling that you get after fixing or building something.  Also, I know that it wont go directly in the garbage in 2 years.  Good for: Environment, Mental Health, Finances
  • Go Paperless - These days, many of your monthly bills can come to you by email, you can pay them online and be done with the whole thing.  That saves the company postage (who cares, right), saves you postage (whoohooo!) and gives a bit of a hand to the environment.  Plus, it’s alot easier than writing a check of paying by phone.  It’s typically free as well.  One word of caution: Dont set up your bills on auto-withdraw.  If they go up, you wont know until it’s far too late to change it.  Good for: Environment, Finances
  • Stop Wasting – This applies to everything.  Think about the things that you’re throwing away and if they can be used again in another way or recycled.  One of the great things wasted is food.  Estimates say that about 13% of our trash comes from food, which can easily be composted into useful soil for house plants or maybe your garden.  It’s not that hard to do, and contrary to popular belief, you dont need that much space.  Good for: Environment, Finances, Health
  • Gardening – You may live in an area with marginal soil, but you can still have your own garden.  Save your compostable goods for a while and use your own dirt to get yourself started.  Plant whatever you think will grow well in your area, but make sure you’re willing to eat it!  It can save you a bit of money and is a great spot for your freshly composted soil.  It can teach children important lessons on nature, self reliance and how to garden.  Many also enjoy gardening for the mental break that it provides the gardener.  You may not make enough money to cover the time you invested, but who cares?  Gardening can be fun, too.  Good for:Finances, Mental Health
  • Do What Works – All of your friends have great ideas on how to do things.  Maybe one of your friends lost like 125937 pounds on the South Beach Diet and wants you to give it a try.   If it does work, great, if not, just stop doing it.  Wasting your time doing something that doesnt work is one more day wasted doing something that’s not working (and if it wasnt working, I sure as HELL wouldnt like it) is one less day you can spend doing stuff you DO like that DOES work.  Good for:Health
  • Dont Look a Gift Horse in the Mouth - Alot of people dont take free money.  Now I know you’re thinking “who wouldnt take free money”.  Are you signed up for your company’s 401(k) plan?  If not, you’re losing an immediate 100% return on a portion of your investment.  If you put in 500 per month, and your employer matches 500 per month, you’ve just gained $500.  If you contribute 0, then you have gained $0.  I dont want to stare that kind of return right in the face.  Good for: Finance, Environment
  • Shop at farmers markets – Typically farmers markets are cheaper than your local chain grocer, and offer fresher foods.  Who can beat something that was picked less than 24 hours ago, right?  It’s also nice to get to know more farmers in your community, and have a chat with them about their land, how they grow, what they grow and who they grow for.  Although farming is typically a solitary job, farmers love talking to people about their work.  Cutting out a middle man (such as kroger) will keep money in your community instead of sending it to Cincinnati, Ohio.  Good for: Environment, Finance, Health
  • Get it yourself – Im talking strictly about food here.  Some communities have community gardens in public spaces that are available for farming.  Growing a small amount of food in one of these (if you dont have room for a garden) is also a great option.  Going out and getting the food yourself also means hunting or fishing.  You dont need to be an ace fisherman to catch dinner, you just need to fish at the right time.  I suggest the early morning.  Fish in the rivers (or lakes) have most likely not been harmed by pollutants or injected with “added color” (whatever that means).  Keeping additives out of your fish and out of your system can lead you to a healthy life.  Getting out of your day-to-day routine will also help you clear your head and can improve your mental health.  Go experience nature, and take dinner home! Good for: Environment, Mental Health, Finance

Many of the solutions I offered are broad goals, with some simple suggestions for action.  I tend to do this because while some things will work for me, they may not work for you or some of the other readers.  There’s always been more than one way to skin a cat, and there always will be.  If you’ve got tips of your own, leave them in the comments, or sent them to twitter @sustainlifeblog

Have a great Thursday!

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Realistic Goal Setting

September 17, 2009

When I created this blog, I was excited to blog about all things related to sustainability, and have left personal (and mental) health by the wayside for finance and environmental sustainability.  While given the current political fervor over healtcare, I figure that it may be worthwhile to provide the readers with some tips in the [...]

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